My limititations don’t define me

Taking nothing for granted

Most people wake up every morning, roll out of bed and get ready for the day almost without thinking. It’s natural human behavior that a lot of people take for granted. I know this because 7 years ago that was how I lived my life. The majority of what I did was almost automatic. My brain and my body were in sync therefore I didn’t really have to think much when it came to completing everyday tasks.

My body was in complete control and much of what I did was effortless. This feeling of independence and having the ability to do what you want when you want is why we tend to take things for granted. You don’t really appreciate something unless you work hard for it. 

Losing my independence

Fast forward 7 years, I now know what it feels to not have those abilities and that independence. For 7 years I have had to re-learn how to do the simple things in life. I have also had to learn to be patient to avoid frustration and anxiety. I also have to depend on someone for most things. That for me was extremely difficult and embarrassing at times, but learning to accept it and not being ashamed of it has been very important for me personally. I don’t think many people like having to depend on anyone for anything, but for me being okay with that has made my life much better. It is okay to ask for help. Needing help is not a weakness.

I had to embrace a new lifestyle and have learned how to do things differently. I know that I am physically limited, but it is those limitations that have taught me the value of self love. I learned to embrace my limitations and accept myself for who I am and not by what I am not able to do physically. I have turned my disability into my greatest ability. 

There are no limits

Today I am wheelchair bound and have many physical limitations that either prevent or make it very difficult to do certain things. Despite those limitations I have been able to achieve most of my goals that I have set for myself. Yes, life is hard at times, but I take it one day at a time and remind myself of what I have been able to achieve thus far. I focus on my next goal and I go for it because I know that with God as my guide and my persistence I will achieve anything and everything I set for myself.

My disability changed my life in a way that to others may seem negative because of the limitations they see on the outside, but those limitations are what have made me realize the value and the importance of every moment that we are alive. I now live and enjoy the present instead of dwelling on my past or worrying about the future.

I have gone through very difficult and painful times throughout these past years. It is moments like those that make me appreciate every moment that I am pain free that much more. Not only do I appreciate the feeling, but I have learned to cherish every moment like it was my last.